Is It Okay to Hook Up With Ex?




It's hard to quit anything you like, including the exs who have been together. Therefore, many people will appear in the case of hooking up with their exs after breaking up. Although many people say that this is only a one-night dating, the actual situation does not seem to be the case. The two people after the breakup still have some appeal to each other. After all, the two people used to be very close people, and it is easy for two people to get together. Especially after the breakup, the two people have not yet started a new relationship. It is understandable to carry out the so-called one-night hookup with the ex. However, if you have a one-night dating often, hooking will blur the boundaries of the two people, causing some confusion. So, under what circumstances can you hook up with your ex?

Many couples who have just broken up will want to hope to recombine with their ex partners. Although this has not happened, but the chances between you are not great. But if you are sure that you will not recombine with your predecessor after breaking up, you will feel some loneliness at this time. Then you can call your ex and get a temporary hookup. It’s much better to hook up with the predecessor than some strangers on these hookup apps. At least the person who hooked up with you is your understanding. Even if it's just a one-night dating, you will have a relaxing date with each other.

When you have no emotional problems with your ex, if you want to hook up with your predecessor, then there is no problem at all. When you and your ex have been separated for some time, and you are not planning to rekindle with each other, then you are likely to be willing to hook up with your ex. A well-known psychologist said, "If you find that you no longer miss your ex, you have begun to want to hook up with other people and confirm that the ex partner will not bother you, then this phenomenon shows that you There will be no problem even if it is hooked up."

As long as you have a little emotional attachment to your ex, then the two of you will make you think about the days you used to be together, and then you will fall into depression. When you accept the reason for your initial breakup, then you only need to miss the gentleness of the past, if you want to occasionally relive the feeling of the bed. For some couples, such a relationship has no effect at all, but they are only sexual or passionate. If you can hook up with your ex without expectation, you are well prepared for your emotions. No longer have any vague feelings about the ex, then the one-night dating between you will be very interesting.